The House of S&M

The House of S&M is a luxury catering and private dining company based in Kalispell, Montana, serving Flathead Valley, Whitefish, Bigfork, Glacier, and the surrounding Mountain West. Led by Chef Star Ironside, a Le Cordon Bleu-trained chef with more than 25 years of industry experience, The House of S&M creates immersive culinary experiences for weddings, private estates, galas, corporate events, donor dinners, and intimate celebrations. Our work blends refined technique with indulgent hospitality, offering everything from elegant staffed buffets and chef-driven dinner service to cinematic grazing tables, wine-paired private dinners, and curated dessert displays. Our style is rich, atmospheric, and deeply intentional. We specialize in food that feels abundant, artful, and memorable without losing warmth or approachability. Each menu is tailored to the event, the setting, and the guests, with thoughtful attention to presentation, flow, dietary needs, and service details. From candlelit private dinners in Whitefish to large-scale galas and destination weddings near Glacier National Park, The House of S&M brings a distinctive culinary presence to events that are designed to linger long after the evening fades.